I've never been too bothered about oil before, but with Brabbie I intend to do things right and keep it running forever.
Every car I ever had suggested 10w40 as the most suitable all round in UK weathers, but they also all recommended 5w30 as a better option, especially as it improves your MPG. I tended to use 10w40, as it was usually cheaper (Asda tend to have 4 litre cans of Castrol GTX for about £18, which is as cheap as it comes).
As for Comma making different oils within the same specs, if you browse oils you'll notice various makes (including Halfrauds own) will have, say 10w40, then 10w40 Ford, 10w40 BMW etc. I believe (IIRC) they recommend the 5w30 Ford oil for the Smart forfour...
I don't personally rate Comma oils, I bought some for the Primera, 10w40, only because it was cheap and it's about all that AllParts sell, and it was incredibly thin compared to others.
As for what oil to use, I guess it's up to you how much you care about your engine (if you're a year from resetting the light, therefore about 2 years since service, I guess you're not too bothered...) 10w40 is pretty much a "one size fits all" but buy the proper type, either petrol or diesel oil, and not bike oil. Don't assume your car wants fully synth either. My Primera hated it, needed a semi.
Also... there's a lot more to a service than changing the oil - changing plugs, checking brakes, air filter, cabin filter etc. If it's really been two years, I'd suggest taking it into an indie and get a full one done.